If you’re in a situation that is making you feel hot headed, you tend to speak without thinking, or something in the situation makes you feel upset, take a step back.

Back away from the situation, stop thinking about it, distract yourself, listen to music- anything. Calm yourself and chances are when you get back to the situation you were so riled up about… It will look so less important. Not as much as a big deal. Or in the least… Not as bad at all.

Stop looking for the perfect love story.

Just stop. You’re not going to find it by looking for it. In fact, you will never find the “perfect” love. What you will find is the love that is just right for you. You will make sacrifices. They will be worth it. Your partner will make sacrifices, too. But you both will be happy. You both will not have regrets.

It will not be like a manga. Or in an anime. I know sometimes it’s nice to think you’ll get swept off your feet just like in the movies. But you will in other ways. When you find the person that’s right for you, you will no longer wish for those fantasies anymore.

You’ll be so happy you found the one you have.

Jealousy is natural.

But it’s also okay only to an extent. If it’s starting to affect your relationship, then you need to do something about it. Talk to who you’re with about what’s making you jealous and really try to resolve it. Sometimes, it’s a pure misunderstanding. Or even you’re jealous of others hitting on him/her? Let me ask you this: is he hitting on them back? Is he showing interest? If no, then you’re wasting your time being jealous. He clearly has his eyes on you and you only.

Trust the person you love. Have faith in your relationship. Also, always have trust that no matter what you approach them with, they’ll listen and try their best resolve it as well as understand.

I keep seeing posts about being Tumblr “famous”. People wanting to be, people being, etc.

I don’t think I would want to be Tumblr famous. For one, I’d have to keep posting frequently. And another thing, I’m just happy to be able to please anyone who comes across my blog.

Even if it’s just one person ever, if they smile because of one of my posts or feel happy because they can relate, then I’m already really satisfied.

Awww, thank you so much! That means the world to me <3

I just want to take a moment to express my gratitude for everything I have ever had and do have. Hardships of everyday life often can make a person take for granted the good in their life.

I’m so blessed to have a cellphone. To have a nice warm bed and soft pillows. To know that no matter what, I’ll always be lucky enough to have food in my belly when I’m hungry. To have a loving mother and siblings. Friends that have my back, & so much more.

I am eternally grateful.